MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS
UNSOLICITED OBSERVATIONS
OBSERVATION NO. 006 | COMPLETELY UNREQUESTED
An unsolicited examination of monetized creativity, accidental entrepreneurship, and the increasingly radical concept that sometimes people just want to make something without creating a business plan.
01. The Observation
I’ve noticed something lately, and I’m beginning to wonder whether we’re still allowed to enjoy hobbies without immediately turning them into potential sources of income. Somewhere along the way, having a creative interest stopped being a perfectly acceptable way to spend your free time and became the preliminary stage of launching a small business. You can’t mention that you enjoy baking, painting, photography, gardening, or making jewelry without somebody enthusiastically explaining how you could monetize it. Apparently, personal enjoyment is no longer a sufficient reason to do something unless there’s a realistic possibility of collecting payments through a business account.
Imagine telling a friend that you’ve recently started making homemade candles. You’re excited because you’ve discovered something relaxing, you’ve learned a new skill, and your apartment now smells like an expensive boutique instead of whatever you burned for dinner last Tuesday. Naturally, you expect your friend to ask what scents you’ve tried or whether you’re enjoying the process. Instead, they immediately announce that you should start selling them, create an Etsy shop, develop a brand identity, and launch a social media account. Brenda, I made three candles in my kitchen. One of them looks like it survived a small electrical fire. Can we perhaps master the melting process before discussing wholesale distribution?
And it’s not just creative hobbies. Somebody starts walking regularly, and suddenly people are suggesting fitness content. Someone enjoys organizing their home, and they’re encouraged to become a professional organizer. A person discovers they enjoy cooking, and before they’ve finished washing the dishes, somebody wants to know whether they’ve considered starting a meal-prep business. Apparently, the modern definition of having a hobby is discovering something you enjoy and then immediately assigning yourself enough additional responsibilities to make sure you stop enjoying it.
What fascinates me most is how often these suggestions are presented as compliments. Someone tells you that your work is beautiful, that you’re talented, or that people would absolutely pay for what you’re creating. And sometimes they’re right, which makes the conversation even more complicated. But somewhere between appreciating someone’s talent and insisting they turn it into a revenue stream, we’ve forgotten that creativity doesn’t need to justify its existence through profitability. Sometimes making something beautiful is the entire accomplishment, and nobody needs to receive an invoice.
02. Let’s Talk About It
First of all, can we discuss how quickly an innocent hobby can become an administrative nightmare? You start crocheting because it helps you relax after work, and within two weeks someone is suggesting that you establish pricing, research shipping materials, create product listings, and develop a customer acquisition strategy. Suddenly, the blanket you were making while watching television has become a potential inventory item, and you’re expected to calculate labor costs while selecting packaging supplies. Congratulations, you’ve successfully transformed a peaceful evening activity into a business operations meeting that nobody actually scheduled.
Then there’s the pressure to document everything. You can’t simply paint a picture anymore; you’re encouraged to record the process, create a time-lapse video, add trending audio, and post it across multiple platforms. If you enjoy gardening, somebody suggests starting a channel documenting your progress. If you love baking, apparently you should be creating recipe content, photographing every finished dessert, and building an audience around your kitchen experiments. I understand the appeal of sharing creative work, but sometimes I’d like to make a batch of cookies without arranging them beside a linen napkin for a promotional photo shoot.
And don’t even get me started on the financial calculations. Someone compliments a handmade scarf, asks how long it took to make, and immediately starts estimating how much you could charge. They suggest selling each one for thirty dollars, completely ignoring the fact that the yarn cost twenty-two dollars and the project required approximately fourteen hours of labor, three abandoned attempts, and a brief argument with a crochet hook. At that point, your hourly earnings would barely cover a celebratory iced coffee. But apparently, the important thing is that you’ve identified a promising business opportunity, even if the business model currently depends on pretending your time has no value.
Social media has made the whole situation even more entertaining. We’re constantly surrounded by people explaining how they turned a simple hobby into a six-figure business, usually while standing in a beautifully decorated home office and speaking with suspicious enthusiasm. They tell you that you can transform your passion into profit, build multiple income streams, and eventually leave your regular job behind. What they occasionally forget to mention is that running a business involves customer service, accounting, marketing, scheduling, taxes, and approximately seventeen responsibilities that have absolutely nothing to do with the original hobby. Suddenly, the person who enjoyed making jewelry is spending Saturday afternoon troubleshooting shipping labels and responding to a customer who wants to know whether the earrings are available in a slightly different shade of beige.
Perhaps my favorite variation is the person who refuses to accept that you simply don’t want to monetize something. You explain that you enjoy photography but have no interest in accepting clients, and they immediately suggest selling prints. You say you love writing but don’t want to freelance, and they recommend starting a paid newsletter. You mention that you make elaborate cakes for family celebrations, and suddenly somebody wants to discuss wedding packages. At some point, I would like to know why “I enjoy doing this for fun” has become an opening statement that requires a detailed defense.
03. Here’s Where It Gets Interesting
Now, before anybody starts dramatically closing their online storefront, let’s acknowledge something important: turning a hobby into a business can be wonderful. Plenty of successful entrepreneurs began by discovering something they genuinely enjoyed and realizing that other people valued their work enough to pay for it. For some people, earning money from a creative skill provides financial independence, flexibility, confidence, or an opportunity to build a career that feels personally meaningful. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing those possibilities, and I’m certainly not suggesting that creative people should avoid earning money from their talents.
But there’s a difference between choosing to build a business and feeling pressured to turn every enjoyable activity into one. Not everyone wants the responsibility of managing customers, tracking expenses, promoting products, or meeting deadlines. Some people already spend their working hours handling obligations and simply want an activity that doesn’t come with performance expectations. A hobby can offer an opportunity to experiment, make mistakes, and enjoy the process without worrying whether the finished result will appeal to potential buyers. That freedom has value, even if it never appears on a financial statement.
There’s also a broader economic reality behind the obsession with side hustles. For many people, additional income isn’t a trendy lifestyle accessory; it’s a genuine financial necessity. Rising expenses, unpredictable employment, and the challenge of covering basic needs can make earning extra money feel less like an exciting opportunity and more like an unavoidable responsibility. When people are struggling financially, suggestions to monetize their skills may come from a practical place rather than an obsession with productivity. But that doesn’t mean every person should be expected to turn their limited free time into another job, especially when they’re already exhausted from the work required to support themselves.
And here’s where I think the conversation gets especially interesting: monetizing a hobby can change your relationship with it. Something that once felt relaxing may become stressful when customers, deadlines, and financial expectations enter the picture. You might start choosing projects based on what sells rather than what interests you, or find yourself producing the same popular item repeatedly because that’s what people are willing to purchase. Instead of experimenting with new ideas, you’re managing inventory and worrying about whether your latest creation will generate enough revenue to justify the materials. That’s not necessarily a bad trade-off if it’s what you want, but it’s certainly a trade-off worth considering.
There’s also something meaningful about doing things badly without consequences. You can paint an absolutely terrible landscape, bake a cake that leans dramatically to one side, or attempt a woodworking project that looks nothing like the original instructions. If you’re doing it for enjoyment, those experiences can still be worthwhile. You might laugh, learn something, or simply appreciate having spent an afternoon trying something new. But once the activity becomes a business, the pressure to produce something marketable can make experimentation feel risky. Sometimes the freedom to be terrible at something is exactly what makes it fun.
04. Tessa’s Two Cents
Here’s my unsolicited opinion: not every hobby needs to become a side hustle, and not every talent needs to generate income to be worthwhile. You can enjoy photography without becoming a professional photographer, love baking without accepting custom orders, and spend your weekends painting without launching an online art business. You can even be genuinely excellent at something and decide that you’d rather keep it entirely separate from your financial responsibilities. Being talented doesn’t automatically create an obligation to sell your talent, and enjoying an activity doesn’t mean you owe the world a business model.
I also think we should stop treating hobbies as wasted potential when they don’t produce measurable results. A person who spends Saturday gardening isn’t necessarily missing an opportunity to start a landscaping company. Someone who loves reading doesn’t need to launch a book review channel, and a person who enjoys decorating their home doesn’t automatically need to become an interior design consultant. Sometimes the benefit of a hobby is simply that it makes your life more enjoyable. It provides a break from responsibilities, gives you something to look forward to, and reminds you that you’re allowed to have interests that aren’t connected to your professional identity.
And can we please stop responding to every creative accomplishment with an unsolicited business proposal? If your friend proudly shows you a painting, you can compliment the colors, ask about the process, or simply tell them that you love it. You don’t have to immediately suggest selling prints, creating merchandise, or building a website. If someone bakes you a delicious cake, you can appreciate the effort without explaining how much money they could make accepting orders. Sometimes the kindest response to someone’s creative work is genuine enthusiasm rather than a surprise consultation about market demand.
That said, if you genuinely want to turn your hobby into a business, go for it. Research your market, calculate your expenses, develop your skills, and build something you’re proud of. Just make sure you’re making that decision because it aligns with your goals rather than because somebody convinced you that enjoying something without earning money is a missed opportunity. And perhaps consider keeping at least one activity in your life that doesn’t require customers, content creation, or financial performance. It’s nice to have somewhere your brain can go without being asked to submit a quarterly revenue report.
Personally, I think there’s something beautiful about having interests that exist purely for enjoyment. You can create something that nobody else sees, learn a skill that never becomes professionally useful, or spend an afternoon experimenting with an idea that leads absolutely nowhere. Those experiences aren’t failures simply because they don’t generate income. They’re part of having a full, interesting life, and that’s a perfectly respectable return on your time. Not everything needs to become a business, and not every moment needs to be converted into a financial opportunity.
TESSA’S UNSOLICITED OPINION
“Not every talent needs a price tag, not every passion needs a business plan, and not every hobby needs customers. Sometimes you can simply enjoy being good at something without turning it into another job. Brenda, I made a bracelet. I did not announce the launch of a jewelry empire.”
05. Before I Mind My Business
Look, I’m all for entrepreneurship, creativity, financial independence, and building something meaningful from your talents. There are people who genuinely love running businesses built around their interests, and I think that’s wonderful. But there’s also something worth protecting about the ability to enjoy an activity without worrying whether it will eventually become profitable. We spend enough of our lives managing responsibilities, meeting expectations, and trying to make our finances work. Perhaps our hobbies don’t need to become another category of obligations unless we actually want them to.
Maybe we could bring back the idea that free time is allowed to be free. You can spend an afternoon knitting, painting, baking, gardening, writing, or learning something completely impractical without feeling obligated to explain how the activity contributes to your financial future. You can make things simply because you enjoy making them, and you can abandon projects halfway through without worrying about disappointing customers. You can even discover that you’re not particularly talented at something and continue doing it anyway because it makes you happy. Imagine that: participating in an activity without calculating its earning potential.
And if somebody compliments your work and suggests that you could sell it, you don’t have to be offended or feel pressured to take their advice. You can appreciate the compliment, acknowledge the possibility, and decide whether entrepreneurship is something that actually interests you. Sometimes a hobby naturally grows into a business, and sometimes it remains a hobby forever. Neither outcome is inherently better, and neither one determines whether your time was well spent.
Anyway, that’s my observation, and I’m going to go enjoy something completely unnecessary without researching market demand, designing a logo, or calculating potential profit margins. I might bake something, reorganize a shelf, or attempt a craft project that has absolutely no chance of becoming commercially successful. If the finished result looks questionable, I’ll laugh, take a picture, and probably try again another day. I will not be launching a preorder campaign, and I certainly won’t be announcing a limited-edition collection.
And if Brenda asks whether I’ve considered turning my latest creative experiment into a business, I’m going to smile politely and explain that I already have enough responsibilities. The hobby is currently operating under a very exclusive business model: no customers, no deadlines, no invoices, and absolutely no intention of expanding. Revenue is zero, expectations are minimal, and employee satisfaction is through the roof. Frankly, it’s the most successful operation I’ve ever seen.
OBSERVATION STATUS: NOTED. OPINION: STILL UNSOLICITED.
Now it’s your turn, Group Chat. Have you ever started enjoying a hobby only to have someone immediately suggest turning it into a business? Do you think the pressure to monetize everything has taken some of the fun out of being creative, or do you love the idea of earning money from something you enjoy? And what’s one hobby you’d happily keep doing even if it never earned you a single dollar? The Group Chat wants your unsolicited observations, and no, we’re not turning the comments into a business networking event.









