Welcome to Menace By Tessa

Meet Tessa. Part advice columnist, part professional red-flag detector, and entirely too opinionated to keep quiet. Welcome to Menace by Tessa, where we talk love, life, boundaries, bad decisions, and the audacity of people who really should know better. Expect brutally honest advice, a little sarcasm, plenty of laughs, and the occasional reality check nobody asked for but probably needed. Come for the advice. Stay for the attitude. ♡

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This Isn’t a Blog. It’s a Wake-Up Call.

If you're looking for dating tips, another list of ways to make someone chase you, or generic advice about becoming the "perfect woman," you're in the wrong place. The internet…

For the Version of You That Knows Better

There comes a point in almost every woman's life when she realizes the hardest person to ignore isn't someone else—it's herself. It's that quiet voice that speaks up after an…

You’re Not Confused. You Just Don’t Like the Answer.

One of the easiest lies we tell ourselves is that we're confused. We say we don't know what to do, we need more time, or we're waiting for things to…

Before You Get Comfortable Here

Before you get comfortable here, there are a few things you should know. Menace by Tessa isn't a place for excuses. It isn't a place for pretending mixed signals are…

Consider This Your Sign

How many more signs are you waiting for? It's a question worth asking because most of us spend far more time searching for certainty than we do listening to ourselves.…

You Already know

The Writing Has Been on the Wall

Long before something falls apart, there are usually signs that it’s heading in that direction. They don’t always arrive...

The Case Files

Case #008: Who Started the Office Halloween Costume Competition?

MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS THE CASE FILES CASE NO. 008   |   STATUS: CLOSED An ongoing investigation into unauthorized workplace...

Unlearning Love

The Fairytale Was Missing a Few Pages

Most of us grew up believing some version of a fairytale. Maybe it came from movies, storybooks, songs, or the relationships we watched...

The Exit Strategy

Walking Away Changed Everything

There was a time when I believed walking away would ruin everything I’d worked so hard to build. I thought leaving meant starting...

Is liking your ex's thirst traps cheating?

  • Absolutely. Why are you still shopping in the clearance section? (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Nope. A like isn't a marriage proposal. Relax. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Depends. Is it a like or are you auditioning for a sequel? (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Cheating? Maybe not. Embarrassing? Absolutely. (0%, 0 Votes)

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Tessa in glasses and a burgundy sweater, holding a letter in a cozy, blush-toned room with candles and a laptop, promoting the Dear Tessa advice column.

GOT DRAMA? TESSA'S LISTENING.

Situationships, red flags, family chaos, or someone with entirely too much audacity? Spill the tea. Tessa has thoughts, and she’s not afraid to share them.

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