Stop Calling It Bad Luck
TessaRenee
There comes a point where we have to stop blaming bad luck for patterns we continue to participate…
Month: July 2026
28 posts
The Version of Me That Settled Had to Go
For years, I convinced myself that settling was the same thing as being grateful. I stayed in situations…
The Delusion Was Strong
There comes a point in healing where your vocabulary changes. You stop saying, “Maybe I’m overreacting,” and start…
You Settled for Familiar
Sometimes we don’t settle because something is good—we settle because it’s familiar. We know what to expect, even…
What They’re Avoiding Matters
Not every message is delivered through what someone says. Sometimes the clearest message comes from the conversations they…
What You Feed Grows
Whether you realize it or not, you’re feeding something every single day. You’re feeding your confidence or your…
The Fear of Being Left Is Running the Show
For many people, the greatest struggle in a relationship isn’t communication, commitment, or compatibility. It’s fear. More specifically,…
They Told You. You Just Didn’t Believe Them.
One of the hardest truths to accept is that people often tell us exactly who they are. Not…
You Fell in Love With Potential
One of the hardest truths to accept after a relationship ends is that sometimes you weren’t in love…
Leaving Is Self Respect
For a long time, I believed leaving meant giving up. I thought strong people stayed, worked harder, forgave…