I Pretended to Be Someone Else Online and Got Caught
MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS DEAR TESSA CHAOS, CHOICES & CONSEQUENCES LETTER NO. 012 | THE FAKE PROFILE FALLOUT What started as a harmless-looking experiment with a fake social media profile turned into months of friendships, flirtation, and an entire imaginary life. Now someone has discovered the truth, the people she...
Respect First
Love gets most of the attention, but respect is what determines whether a relationship can actually survive. It’s easy to fall for someone’s charm, chemistry, or the way they make you feel in the beginning. Those things create excitement, but they aren’t what carry two people through disappointment, conflict, or...
Not Every Thought Needs a Podcast
MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS UNSOLICITED OBSERVATIONS OBSERVATION NO. 004 | COMPLETELY UNREQUESTED An unsolicited examination of microphone ownership, aggressively confident opinions, and the increasingly popular belief that every conversation deserves an audience, a sponsorship deal, and its own introductory theme music. 01....
Effort Is the Love Language You’re Ignoring
We spend a lot of time talking about love languages. Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, gifts—most people can list them without much thought. They can even tell you which one they prefer. But there’s one quality that quietly supports every healthy relationship, regardless of anyone’s love...
My Cousin Copied My Baby Name and Called Me Dramatic
MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS DEAR TESSA BLOOD, BESTIES & BETRAYAL LETTER NO. 011 | FAMILY TIES, FRAYED NERVES She shared a meaningful baby name with a cousin she considered one of her closest friends. Months later, that cousin announced the very same name for her own daughter, then accused her of being dramatic …...
Detachment Creates Clarity
When most people hear the word detachment, they imagine someone becoming cold, distant, or emotionally unavailable. They picture shutting people out, pretending not to care, or avoiding vulnerability altogether. But healthy detachment isn’t about caring less. It’s about seeing more clearly. It’s about creating enough...
Please Stop Blocking the Entire Grocery Aisle
MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS PUBLIC NUISANCES PUBLIC NOTICE NO. 004 | STATUS: ON NOTICE An ongoing examination of unauthorized aisle conferences, shopping cart barricades, and the baffling belief that the grocery store is an appropriate location for a family reunion. 01. The Disturbance It begins on an otherwise ordinary Sunday...
Letting Go Doesn’t Mean It Didn’t Matter
One of the greatest fears people have when they let go is that they’re somehow erasing what they had. We worry that moving on means the relationship wasn’t real, the friendship wasn’t meaningful, or the memories no longer matter. We convince ourselves that if we stop grieving, we’re rewriting history. But letting...
His Dating Profile Says Single. We’ve Been Together Two Years
MENACE BY TESSA PRESENTS DEAR TESSA LOVE, LIES & RED FLAGS LETTER NO. 010 | LOVE IS COMPLICATED They’ve celebrated anniversaries, met each other’s families, and talked about moving in together. So why is her boyfriend advertising himself as single to women who apparently haven’t received the relationship...
You Can’t Build a Future on Empty Promises
Hope is a beautiful thing—until it becomes the only thing holding your life together. There’s nothing wrong with believing people can change, relationships can heal, or dreams can come true. Hope is often what keeps us moving through difficult seasons. But hope was never meant to replace evidence. At some point, you have to stop...
